The key.

I've learned some of the greatest lessons in the past couple of months. I have learned that you are your only friend at the end of the day and YOU MUST LIVE WITH THE CHOICES THAT YOU MAKE.Not your best friend , not your lover, not your family. So I realize the only thing that can possibly get you through any situation is confidence, strength, and attitude. The confidence to just be beautiful inside and out. To get that feeling inside your soul to be okay with the life you are living and To walk with your head held high despite the circumstances. To not always need to hold someones hand but to be content with lacing YOUR fingers together and being independent. And strength, boy do we all need a bit of that. At times of vulnerability or confusion to just reach into our pockets and just throw a sprinkle of it over us to overcome it all. And attitude, its all about attitude and how you handle yourself and even how you come across to others. You must always respect yourself and bring an air of class with you everywhere you go. Not everyone is going to always be honest but making sure you pick out what you choose to take to heart and what you choose to just let go so it doesnt take all of your energy just to dwell on something that you cant control. Self control and the way you choose to come towards whatever challenges you may be facing is something you must keep in your heart. Believe it or not, it does decide what happens at the end of this ride. You can stay negative and just be so pessimistic and not truly ENJOY your life or you can EMBRACE it and believe in yourself and what your heart tells you. And having fun is key to getting through this all. Just breaking out whenever you want and laughing. Even if its with yourself. You can be your own best friend too. To have enough confidence to walk into the world by yourself . its just beautiful. The people you trust the most are going to let you down its inevitible my goodness. It just makes you human. Since were all human. So instead of beating yourself up asking yourself for some kind of answer how about learn from it. Set your standards high but dont expect not to be let down every once in awhile sunshine. It happens thats life just remember who you are and why your here. its all youve really got.