Irony

EVERY SINGLE PERSON warned me when they learned I got engaged that all my fun would be over once im married and things were going to change drastically no matter how wonderful brock was. When did this happen? Where was I? Becuase I have to admit that I have had some of THE BEST MEMORIES in the last nine months of my life. I have learned to appreciate things in such a different way. I wake up with someone by my side and go to sleep with that same comfort from the same person next to me supporting me between that time too. My focus isn't solely on myself anymore its not on my family and how I want to always keep that bond strong between him and I. I've learned these simple things to abide by to keep a happy and healthy relationship ,marriage , and most importantly friendship.
- always find each others boundaries and no matter how angry or upset at one another never try to cross those
- never mention the D word. Such a negative connotation that word has and even when joking it could be taken to heart
- never stop being intimate. In every aspect of your marriage.
- always listen first
- and never stop having fun marriage is sometimes taken too seriously by some and that's what in my eyes causes couples to lose that "lust" as they call it .

We are not perfect. We still say things that we don't mean when we are angry but we've learned how to go about working on things instead of dwelling on the small mishaps. At the end of my day all I want to see is him and I and one day a family happily living . I honestly cant think of anything better than the married life especially to my husband. Its not always perfect and it shouldnt be .. Perfect gets boring. You still must take chances believe in just yourself and trust the things you cant see but the things that you can FEEL. Ive laughed harder, fought for something more than just what I want but what I NEED, Ive compromised and loved more than i ever have before. I just think of all the negative things I have heard about marriage and I honestly cant agree with any certain thing I have heard. Sure sometimes I want to strangle him at times but that's healthy. I just wish anyone getting ready to get married or is already married remembers how sacred it is and really appreciates the fact that they have someone who's heart yearns so deeply for them and always love as deep as you can with that person. Its for a lifetime so why not make it fun <3